HI All,
Well I wish I can say it was a great trip however, I am back home now 24 hrs later.
I never thought I would have problems with the NEPHEW as my words before were always about the number 1 sister .
My nephew was so abusive towards me I didn't sleep Friday night and if I did, it was only 2 hours.
After battleing with his drunken disorderly conduct and acting like a total A hole, I had enough.
I woke up Sat morning took a shower and got dressed and packed the suitcase and got a taxi and went to the train station in Balitmore and I got back to CT at 7pm.
I didn't have a ride from the train station in upstate NY so I asked someone with CT plates are where they were going in CT and they were going near to me so the lady I asked, her husband said it was fine and he drove me home.
When I got to NYC I found myself sitting on the wrong train and then when I found the right train I only had 6 minutes to make it and thank G I did .
I am done with family reunions, matters, caring for kids whom are so spoiled and sick in the mind.
I am now going to start thinking of ME and what matters to me the most and try to get a life back and maybe who knows live happy ever after.
I am soooooooooo tired my hands aren't following my mind however, I wanted to let you all know I am back and alone and my sister won't be home until Weds prob.
Now I can go back to work and earn my money I lost paying for the trains and taxies which I didn't expect to have to shell out.
Great to be home.
Eve
HI Dan,
For the past 3 years I have been doing things which I felt were the right things for the right reasons and with no success.
I was so looking forward to seeing this young man graduate being the first in our family it’s a big thing to me at least.
I guess this young man will never know how much he hurt me or even care how much it meant to me to see him accept this diploma. I feel too it’s his loss.
He is full of anger and jealousy and the two mixed is damaging to him and those close to him.
I hope he is happy today .
Thanks Dan, for your support always.
Eve
Glad to see that you arrived home safe & sound. I cannot believe that your nephew behaved so incorrigibly towards you. I have had a number of run-ins with people whose behaviour totally changed after having a few drinks – and it really alters your perspective of them afterwards. Such people are best left alone. At least you made the effort, Eve, and now you know that in all good conscience you can focus on yourself.
regards,
JCL.
HI Briar,
You are so right, it was a great day in NYC and I was temped to call my X to see if I could stay in NYC for a few days, he use to manage the Edison Hotel there and has LOADS of connections however, me looking like crap and not seeing him for to many years I figured I better wait until I looked much better.
I loved seeing the tall buildings as the train came into the downtown area just before it went underground, I was going to take pics of it but was to tired to get out my camera which was in my bag. Darn it !
I love the people of NYC too they are very much alive and willing to help anyone at any time I love that !!!!!!!!!
Thanks for the welcome home and the postitive words from you and the rest of the gang.
Hugs and love,
Eve
Welcome back Eve!
What a beautiful day it was to be traveling through NYC.
You did what you needed to do for your peace of mind.
Enjoy the peace and quiet of being home alone!
~Briar~
Dear Eve, Good to see you have returned safely. You did what you thought was the right thing and you have done well. The fact that the nephew behaved in that way is -well- one of those things. Too bad he was rude to you, but now you will concentrate on YOU and that’s a positive objective. Well done, and ‘welcome back!’
Your good friend, lokutus 🙂
HI my sweet friend Lokutus,
I found so much comfort inside your words thank you and it’s so nice to know that I have friends to come home to 🙂
I am happy this part of my return is over, I have put a lot of things on HOLD due to this trip pending and now it’s over I can move forward and go anywhere I would like to at any time … YEPPIE.
Eve
Eve,
Sometimes bad things happen to open doors for good ones to come in.
I believe that’s what happened to you. Now you know that focusing on your needs is the best to be done from now on.
Good luck on that.
If you need anything, let me know.
;)Best,
Dan
HI JCL,
You are so right, I use to bartend years ago and I know how people change after a couple of drinks however, my nephews problems run very deep and he has alot of anger towards his mother and other aunt not me since I was shut out of his life until he was older to make his own choices.
I have tried to show him things his mother hid from him and also his other aunt, and I knew his father where as his other aunt didn’t.
His mother is the root to his anger and the lies or misundstandings he is living with I am sure creates a suffering for him and yet I am the only one of the 3 sisters willing to help him find his father and show him the road to recovery where as the other 2 wish to keep hidden the ills of their ways.
I am the kind of woman who puts all the cards on the tables and yet he knows my past and my mistakes with my children and yet still puts me on the cross and I don’t need to be there since I have confessed and took responsibity for my ways. I have been forgiven.
Nice to be back to sanity at least for now.
Eve
All I can say is, I worked in travel and I really could see the way that
taking a trip had an effect on people’s minds and bodies. I hope you get some rest.
God Bless,
Sarah