I found this personal ad on a site and I just couldn't help myself 😉
I replied to it with some home made poetry and sent it off, the answer to it is at the end of this posting.
Cut and paste:………………………………….
I’m looking for conversation that leaves me smiling and shaking my head in wonderment. I want my cheeks to hurt. I want to see life from yet another angle. I want to learn something new. I want to flirt. I want to share my ideas. I want my brain to hurt. I want to discuss lucid dreaming and how it seems to be leaking into my waking life. Anything beyond that is just icing on the cake.
I’m a very handsome person – inside and out. I’ve got a passion for life that is filled with optimism. I love new experiences. I’m very confident. I love travel – have lived abroad twice – and speak several languages (some of which are spoken by other people too). I’m creative. I’m always trying to grow…since I’m 5’8”. I love reading books that stretch my mind. I love getting chills from musical theater. I enjoy all types of amazing foods – but stay in good shape. Making music makes me smile…and I’ve got a warm smile. I love discussing philosophy, science, current events and life. Mountains, trees and water were some fine inventions. I have endless patience – and I am a fabulous listener. I’m also extremely honest and open. Hopefully – you are willing to overlook all this – and join me for a conversation anyway.
I’d love it if you were wildly intelligent and beautiful. Confident enough to know how great you are – but always searching for ways to make yourself better. You know how to make people laugh. You’re willing to try new things – including new foods. You’re kind and honest. You’ve got a life you love – and you are very independent. You’re beautiful – inside and out. You love to kiss, touch, and be looked at. You’re single and very available and have a passion for life.
Your photo gets mine.
END OF PASTE……….
I did get a reply from this man and as I figured he stated to me… What wonderful words and if ONLY a face to match them.. please send pic.
I said I expected a different reply from a man with words such as yours however, I know how beautiful I am inside and out and there isn't any reason for you to SEE THE FACE BEHIND MY WORDS.. I didn't ask to see yours did I?
this is what happened on my way off line 🙂
Eve
Deare Eve,
An interesting story and an insight into what,perhaps, was in the co-respondents’ mind? It is not surprising that some folk require a photo to ‘fit in’ with their own concept of ‘beauty’. or sometimes it is simply a request ‘to know more’about the person they are trying to ‘match up’ with. External beauty, while being a powerful physical component -is not always the ‘prime factor’ in what attracts one person to another. You gave part of the answer yourself when you said
“I know how beautiful I am inside and out and there isn’t any reason for you to SEE THE FACE BEHIND MY WORDS.. I didn’t ask to see yours did I?”
…but it is often the case that curiosity is also a motivating factor and that is, perhaps, why some folk want to know who they are connecting with (I use who advisedly -for other folk simply want physical appearances to “ring their bell”, so to say).
Thanks for sharing this facsinating story with us 🙂
lokutus
HI Sweet L,
I can understand why a person would ask for a photo ONCE you have known them thru words for a while but to say,” YOURS GETS MINE” 🙂 I am not desparate so who cares what “Shallow HAL” looks like 🙂
I just knew this person would give me the repsonse he did and this verified my feelings.
Thank you for reading and posting.
XX
Eve
Hi there Eve, I know, I’m ‘cheating’ a little by writing my “Welcome to the New Opera” layout wishes and greetings to you, on to this blog page, but, for this moment, I didn’t know where else to put it 🙂 Anyway, as I just said “Welcome to the New Opera layout” -when you know where to find all of our previous friend’s links let me know! LOL. -but I have tracked a few down, including you, and ‘added’ them to my “Friends” list.Best wishes, dear friend, Evelokutus 🙂
Don’t you love and adore the way that men are? They are truly site oriented! Send him a pic and watch him drool!Sarah
Sarah,I am choking with laughter -please stop! :)lokuhysterical :):)
…and of course I am referring to your *second sentence*, as I have seen lovely Eve’s photo image (hi, dear Eve).lokutus 🙂
Hi eve!Hope you’re doing good.Have you seen that you’re listed as one of the most popular journals in the community?Congrats! That means that a lot of people are learning from you!Love,Dan
HI Dan, yes I did see this and I do thank Opera for highlighting me there, it means alot to me to know my words do help others and what I state here is from my heart and soul. I hope I can learn also from others as well.. Love and hope,Eve
HI Sweet Sarah,I* do happen to have a hot pic of myself however, I am sure this guy would wear it out soooooooo he’s not getting it LOLI could find one of someone else who is hotter than I am lol let him drool over that one ;)Love Eve
Hello Eve, This comment may appear more than once, as I have tried to post something similar and cannot see that it has ‘happened’, so to say. I just wanted to congratulate you on your blog appearing on the ‘most popular’ list. Well done! -you certainly deserve to be there. Best wishes. lokutus 🙂
Hello Eve, This comment may appear more than once, as I have tried to post something similar and cannot see that it has ‘happened’, so to say. I just wanted to congratulate you on your blog appearing on the ‘most popular’ list. Well done! -you certainly deserve to be there. Best wishes. lokutus 🙂
HI my Sweet L,thank you for noticing and commenting here in my journal. I hope you are OK and writing more more more ..hugsEve