I decided today to start reading the Dr Phil's book. Self Matters.
I found powerful words in the first 20 pages and I couldn't put it down, I did after forcing myself to seek other things to get done.
It's not the issue of self esteem, it's the idea of having a life after always giving up a way of life so others < children> may have one.
I know right from wrong however, at this time and age I don't know what's "right" for me.
The "DESERT" holds many disappointments not known before until I am actually here.
Each time I return to the DESERT I see something new I didn't see before and it lessens my faith and my heart.
to be continued
It seems that one can take extreme measures and not find the fault or quirk or what ever big or little thing there exists that finally shows it’s ugly head and brings failure! I really see your point. One of the biggest problems is falling in love before your “analysis” (haha funny word for it)is through and thus you are then blinded by your love! I would never have done it in the past, but now I condone living together before marriage!!It is not right, I know, but it seems the only way to be assured that “it is going to work”. Still even that is not enough. I have no other solutions for you (like I am an expert anyway haha).
haha Glenn thanks for the advice . I am busy working I don’t have time or energyfor another man to drain me.. I am divorced now 3 years and happy to be alonenot all the time but that’s life 🙂
Well, much power to ya my dear! I am just thinking you deserve much! And not all work!
thank you and I do understand where your heart is 🙂
Good girl! haha